Once a cheater always a cheater

How true is that statement? Some swear by it, while others don’t believe in it. You have to look in to the facts of what happens. Some people get intirely to intoxicated to the point where they are in another state of mind. Does that make what they did right? No, but you know deep down if they were sober that would of never of happened. Then you have those who do it for the thrill! The sneaky ones who don’t give a shit about other people’s feelings. I feel that those people are what you could call the repeater cheater! But I have just recently found myself in a situation that is a whole nother ball game. My husband had walked out on a 3 year marriage and used the excuse that he didn’t want his relationship to turn into his parents. Meanwhile the real reason is he left so that he could screw someone else and it wouldn’t be considered cheating! Gross right? I no. I have come to find myself in a bad spot, he had came home after “running the streets” for a month with another women, and like the girl I am I forgave him and welcomed him with open arms. But I find myself checking up on him here and there and being very annoying with questions like oh what took you so long or hey who are you texting. I’m scared, in my mind I feel like this man had to of had a motive to leave, especially because the second he left he was right in the tramps arms! (Usually I wouldn’t be the one to be pissed off at the other person, BUT this girl knows us, knows we’re married and have children) sooooo therefore I feel like there had to be something going on prior to him leaving. Do I think he was screwing around before he left? No, but I most definitely think there was conversation happening between the two. So back to my question… Once a cheater always a cheater? I guess I will personally have to find that out myself.

Xoxo Anonymous

Is HATE the opposite of LOVE?

Honestly, I do not think there is a correct answer. Every now and again you overhear couples say how there in a love/hate relationship but in reality how could you possibly hate the one you love? I can tell you how! This man I call my husband drives me to the point to where I want to jump off a cliff screaming “bye have a nice life” and then the next day do something so sweet that you immediately call your girlfriends to tell them how wonderful he is. Why is it that two of the most powerful words can be used in the same sentence? We are able to describe our family and friends saying how much we hate them one minute and love them the next. But I feel like that is what is so wrong with this world. We are so quick to throw out the word hate, instead of saying “oh I’m so mad I could kill him” or “how could she do that! I can’t stand her.” So as you go on about your week, try to take a moment to avoid the word HATE and also embrace the word LOVE.

Have a great day all!!!

Xoxo  Anonymous